Want to Get Started on Something You Been Putting Off
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What is a project you want to do, but you haven't stepped to the line? A bolder direction in your business or starting a business on the side? Putting yourself up for a new position or taking more of a leadership role on your team? Starting to do public speaking, taking on an assistant, reinventing yourself, http://www.bizfaktor.com/blogs.php?action=show_member_post&ownerID=4085&post_id=136017 - http://www.bizfaktor.com/blogs.php?action=show_member_post&ownerID=4085&post_id=136017 ?
Well, I received the galleys for my book in the mail this week, it will be sent to the printer after I approve it, and then we'll be reading it together come December. And now I'm in the planning phases for the 2nd one.
When you have a doubt about your abilities, or when you are under stress, you see things through your own filters, not factually. You want to learn to become objective when evaluating your opportunities.
Here's 3 strategies to get started on an important initiative you've been putting off:
1. Shift "I'm too busy" to "I'll make the time if it's important"
Sort out: is it not the right time because you are intentionally devoting time to the limited number of projects that are in a straight line towards your professional and personal goals OR simply that "too busy" is a convenient way of indicating you don't believe in yourself. How would you know the difference?First, imagine what it would look like when you're past the inertia, and things are working well, http://www.ballgownsoutlet.com/ - Stylish Ball Gown Dresses 2013 . If you are not thrilled, it may be a 'should' based on what other people are doing, http://cc.ecomnet.com.my/viewthread.php?tid=55978&extra= - http://cc.ecomnet.com.my/viewthread.php?tid=55978&extra= , in which case drop the idea.
Second, take a step back and look at this possibility through the lens of your big picture. List the activities/projects that keep you 'busy' now, and compare each one with the possibility of this longer term asset. Will the new project accomplish or accelerate your goals or bring you even more reward/satisfaction? The answer would need to be "yes", http://www.idresslondon.co.uk - prom dresses 2013 short in front long in back . It was for me - a lot of people need the skills I teach in the book so it's a vehicle to help more people learn the skills, and it instantly established my credibility for corporate trainings and conference speeches. So I reviewed with fresh eyes, where am I spending time that is not giving me a return on my investment? I cut out those activities.
Third, Ask yourself what will happen if you don't do it? I knew I would have regrets and feel too strongly that I had missed my opportunity. So I imposed an external deadline (the book proposal), http://www.idresslondon.co.uk - sherri hill prom dresses 2013 uk . Then I became so "into" the project that finding time for it became much easier.
2. Shift "What if it doesn't work?" to "What's the process to vet the idea?"
It can be scary if other people know you have a goal. You know they will be watching you. We do this to ourselves. We pressure ourselves to need to control the outcome. We have to know it will work or else we don't want to try. We get impatient for a winning result. All of these are confidence related issues. You think that you have to prove yourself and have a big win to make up for ways you think you have underachieved in the past, http://bbs.aoto17.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=43773 - http://bbs.aoto17.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=43773 .
Instead, do your best due diligence up front to consider objectively whether the idea is viable, and what you can do to improve the chances of success. Use your best decision making and planning skills to vet the idea, and if it's a good one then go for it. Put a plan into place to monitor early results and learn to course correct as needed. I was able to get started when I stopped worrying about outcomes I couldn't control and I started getting so excited that I could teach a lot of people needed skills. Shift "I don't know enough yet" to "Doing the research is the funnest part"
Start with writing down what and who you DO know (it's more than you think). Identify the gaps to get the project rolling. Identify who has the needed information or contacts. helps talented and successful people get out of their own way.
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